Yes, I know. The title should read what I have loved about October 2012. This month has been a whirlwind of fun things and I have loved every minute of it. What is not to love about October? The weather is amazing. The beauty surrounding us, again amazing. Between football, fall festivals and the food that goes with all of that, oh, I love it. To me the change of seasons is something much bigger than all of that, though. It reminds me of the verse in Ecclesiastes that says: "There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under heaven" While I'm not sure that God was speaking about the seasons of nature in this particular verse, He certainly creates all seasons: whether it be fall, winter, spring or summer; or whether it be seasons of life. Don't we know it. There are seasons of life that are so wonderful you can hardly stand it and then there are season that well, just stink. Like big time. Seasons that you want to say, okay, let's move on; let's have a change of scenery. But God is faithful and with His love, grace, comfort and peace, we can get through it, onto a new season. The season may be new but that God who created it is not. God is the same yesterday, today and tomorrow. No matter the season.
Alrightly then. What I've loved...
1. On October 2nd, D and I took a little trip to The Big Easy. Can I just tell you that the food was the best part of this trip? D was in meetings for a good bit of the time we were there but we did find time to take a city tour, go to the City Market (which included beignets, have mercy) and visit the World War II Museum there, which is fabulous by the way. I would highly recommend all of these if you're down that way.
2. Then the next week on the 9th, E and I took Mimi on a little trip up to Franklin, NC. Boy oh boy, did she enjoy that. We had tickets to see "Smoke on the Mountain" at the Smokey Mountain Center for the Performing Arts. This is the first time I'd been there and let me just say, I'll be going back. It is a beautiful venue. On the way up we stopped at "Goats on the Roof" and had ice cream and then on the way back we did a little shopping at the Outlet Mall. The perfect little road trip by any standards.
3. On October 10th, G had a birthday - his 23rd! I didn't get to see him on his birthday which I could hardly stand. He made a quick trip to Gainesville that day but I didn't know he was coming so I was in the mountains with E and Mimi. D had lunch with him which totally made his day. But my wait was not long. We were headed on that Friday to spend some time with him in Savannah. We took our birthday party on the road complete with both grandmothers and birthday cake! We ate seafood, shopped, took a riverboat cruise and just thoroughly enjoyed being together. Happy Birthday, G! You are one amazing young man. I am beyond blessed and honored to be your mom.
4. Every Monday of this month has found some of my best girlfriends in my living room digging deep into the book of Deuteronomy. Side note: studying this book has forced me to learn how to spell it. (Maybe I should study Habakkuk next because I sure don't know how to spell that one) We are doing Beth Moore's study entitled "Law of Love." I continue to be fascinated by the Old Testament. I'm not sure what I expected from Deuteronomy but the words of old Moses sure have blown me away.
5. Last weekend we went to the farm and what a wonderful place of retreat it was. D, Kirkley and I loaded up in the truck and away we went. Honestly, I could have just stayed there. The air was crisp and cool; the sky was big and bright; and the peace and quiet was like heaven to us. What a wonderful place.
6. As I'm sitting here, we have just returned from Jacksonville where we took a little vacation. Oh yea, the Dawgs played while we were there. And so did Zac Brown. And the very best part of the whole weekend? My little family of five was together to enjoy these events! We absolutely had the time of our lives - it was awesome! D and I just kept saying to each other how thankful we were to have this time with the kids. What a blessing it was to be together!
A few random loves about October...
7. Fall clothes - you get to wear them in October! Because finally in Georgia the weather decides not to be 110 degrees in the shade with 150% humidity. (I've never been one for exaggeration). But honestly, yay for scarves, sweaters and boots! I sure have been missing you guys.
8. Fall food - apples, that means you. I've made apple cake, apple butter and apple sauce. The absolute easiest and most delicious thing you can make is apple sauce. It beats the kind in the jar hands down. Want the recipe? Okay stay with me here: peel, core and slice the apples; toss them in a little sugar then put them in your slow cooker for 7-8 hours. And there you have it - applesauce perfection.
Okay, we'll that's it for today. For some unknown reason my computer has frozen up twice while I've been typing this so I'm typing like a mad woman because it happens again. Enjoy the three days left in October! Can you believe it? 57 days until Christmas!
Sunday, October 28, 2012
Monday, October 1, 2012
The Nights the Lights Went Out in Georgia
Most of you that know me well, know that my favorite movie of all time is "Steel Magnolias." Now, I could rattle off quotes from this movie but I'll share my all-time favorite one from Clairee; "The only thing that separates us from the animals is our ability to accessorize." Amen, sister!
So what brings this up? D and I were having one of those late night conversations when neither of us could sleep so you end up talking about just the most random things. Well, the topic of movies came up which led into southern movies and television shows. I was telling him how one of my favorite television moments came from one of my favorite television shows, "Designing Women." This particular scene was Julia defending Suzanne to the current Miss Georgia World, Marjorie. Oh, I can't tell you how much I love this.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qz_ZpoYBzaw
So now you know.
So what brings this up? D and I were having one of those late night conversations when neither of us could sleep so you end up talking about just the most random things. Well, the topic of movies came up which led into southern movies and television shows. I was telling him how one of my favorite television moments came from one of my favorite television shows, "Designing Women." This particular scene was Julia defending Suzanne to the current Miss Georgia World, Marjorie. Oh, I can't tell you how much I love this.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qz_ZpoYBzaw
So now you know.
Wednesday, September 26, 2012
The Birthday Excitement
So today I have officially been around the world because tomorrow is my husband's birthday. Let me explain. Today I had 16 things to do/stops to make on my list. And they all had to be done in a specific order which for some reason makes it more stressful to me. However, I must admit I did find time to go to Old Navy and get not one, but two, of those great cotton shirts they have (one grey and one polka dot) which are perfect for fall in Georgia. And to make a great cotton shirt even better, I went to my friend's gift shop where she does monogramming and dropped them off for a little customization of the pocket on one and the sleeve on the other. Yes, I am a Southern girl; we don't buy it unless we can monogram it. I'll share photos when I get them back. Well, I think I will share photos because that was one of my stops, to get a new camera. My camera during our vacation in July suffered an unfortunate drop which caused it to render itself useless. I'm not sure how to work this new camera but must figure it out before tomorrow. Because, and I'm finally almost getting to the point of all this, we are celebrating D's birthday tomorrow with what I am calling his "Sports Extravaganza."
The man loves all kinds of sports so this pretty much is his dream birthday. First, he is playing in a charity golf tournament tomorrow (I'm going too as an assistant, not a player); then Friday morning we are going to the Atlanta Motor Speedway in Hampton for a NASCAR experience (yes, meaning he will get in an actual race car and loop around the track for about 30 minutes going heaven knows how fast). This was his birthday gift from last year. There were scheduling challenges. Then Friday night we are headed to the Braves game. E and N are meeting us there. This is pretty special because this is the big night for honoring Chipper Jones. If you're a Braves fan at all, you probably are a Chipper fan. Then on Saturday, we're headed to Athens for the beloved Bulldogs game. Oh yes we are. My husband is pretty much over the moon with excitement.
Tonight is his birthday dinner. On the menu: meatloaf, mashed potatoes, peas (so we can make bird's nests), green beans (from the garden), cream corn (from the garden), watermelon and biscuits. For dessert? I cheated and stopped at Peggy Trueloves for cupcakes. D said he didn't want a big cake so cupcakes it is.
Oh and I also sneaked a little shopping for a decorating project I've got going. I'll have to post pictures of that too. I better get in there and figure out how to use the camera.
The man loves all kinds of sports so this pretty much is his dream birthday. First, he is playing in a charity golf tournament tomorrow (I'm going too as an assistant, not a player); then Friday morning we are going to the Atlanta Motor Speedway in Hampton for a NASCAR experience (yes, meaning he will get in an actual race car and loop around the track for about 30 minutes going heaven knows how fast). This was his birthday gift from last year. There were scheduling challenges. Then Friday night we are headed to the Braves game. E and N are meeting us there. This is pretty special because this is the big night for honoring Chipper Jones. If you're a Braves fan at all, you probably are a Chipper fan. Then on Saturday, we're headed to Athens for the beloved Bulldogs game. Oh yes we are. My husband is pretty much over the moon with excitement.
Tonight is his birthday dinner. On the menu: meatloaf, mashed potatoes, peas (so we can make bird's nests), green beans (from the garden), cream corn (from the garden), watermelon and biscuits. For dessert? I cheated and stopped at Peggy Trueloves for cupcakes. D said he didn't want a big cake so cupcakes it is.
Oh and I also sneaked a little shopping for a decorating project I've got going. I'll have to post pictures of that too. I better get in there and figure out how to use the camera.
Tuesday, September 25, 2012
The "Apple" of my Eye
Well, you know how you have to fight some days to keep perspective? That whole don't sweat the small stuff jazz? Well, honestly, as I've gotten older I really don't sweat the little things like I used to in my younger days. You just realize the older you get that some things just aren't as important as they used to be. However ... one thing that I "sweat" over is my cell phone. Okay, my name is Crevolyn Wiley and I am addicted to my cell phone. I'm sure that there is a 12-Step program for me somewhere. After all, the first step is to admit.
But this morning I'm almost in a little tiz just because: 1. I'm switching cell service providers; 2. I am perfectly happy with this provider which means my comfort zone and I are totally content together; 3. My husband insists that going on another plan will save us some money (but isn't my peace of mind worth something?); 4. I will be without my cell phone all day. Yes, I said all day. Apparently, according to my husband I'm supposed to back up my phone on my computer. Who knew? I honestly thought when Apple came out with iCloud that it was supposed to take that annoying little step away so I just stopped backing up my phone. I mean really, this phone can do everything else, can't it back it's own self up? I have better things to do. All this ranting to say... my phone and computer have to go to the IT department at the store for the day. The.entire.day. What in heaven's name takes so long? So I'll spend the whole day wondering who is calling, texting and emailing me and who is posting great things on Facebook and Instragram; all the while, attempting to pick it up to look up some random fact. Oh, the craziness of it all.
Or maybe I'll enjoy the peace and quiet. Maybe I'll listen and look for other things of much greater importance. Maybe instead of looking at my phone at the stop light, I'll notice the sky and beauty around me. Maybe I'll enjoy a conversation with an actual person instead of burying my head in my phone. Maybe I'll look my husband in the eye when he's talking to me after supper instead of obsessing over Pinterest. Maybe I'll hear God speaking instead of being so preoccupied with the buzz of electronics.
Maybe I'll let them keep it another day.
But this morning I'm almost in a little tiz just because: 1. I'm switching cell service providers; 2. I am perfectly happy with this provider which means my comfort zone and I are totally content together; 3. My husband insists that going on another plan will save us some money (but isn't my peace of mind worth something?); 4. I will be without my cell phone all day. Yes, I said all day. Apparently, according to my husband I'm supposed to back up my phone on my computer. Who knew? I honestly thought when Apple came out with iCloud that it was supposed to take that annoying little step away so I just stopped backing up my phone. I mean really, this phone can do everything else, can't it back it's own self up? I have better things to do. All this ranting to say... my phone and computer have to go to the IT department at the store for the day. The.entire.day. What in heaven's name takes so long? So I'll spend the whole day wondering who is calling, texting and emailing me and who is posting great things on Facebook and Instragram; all the while, attempting to pick it up to look up some random fact. Oh, the craziness of it all.
Or maybe I'll enjoy the peace and quiet. Maybe I'll listen and look for other things of much greater importance. Maybe instead of looking at my phone at the stop light, I'll notice the sky and beauty around me. Maybe I'll enjoy a conversation with an actual person instead of burying my head in my phone. Maybe I'll look my husband in the eye when he's talking to me after supper instead of obsessing over Pinterest. Maybe I'll hear God speaking instead of being so preoccupied with the buzz of electronics.
Maybe I'll let them keep it another day.
Monday, September 24, 2012
It's a Brand New Day
Does anyone else besides me wake up on Monday mornings with a fresh perspective on life? This morning has been so therapeutic for me. For one thing, it is absolutely beautiful outside. This is my kind of weather! Yay - for fall! When I took Kirkley out this morning and breathed in the fresh cool air, I could feel my spirits lift. That's when my fresh perspective emerged. I felt energized and renewed!
And boy howdy, did I need it! Let me just tell you the past few months and weeks have been a whirlwind, especially the past three weeks. E and I have been blessed to be a part of three wonderful weddings this month. All three have been outdoor weddings and God has certainly smiled upon us with weather that has been nothing short of incredible. Can I just tell you that there is a certain stress level that accompanies an outdoor wedding? Oh yes there is. But these three have gone off without a hitch! Weather - amazing! Sweet families - definitely! So, what more can you ask for? We have just had the best time. My heart soared this morning when E and I received a text from our last Saturday's bride who from her honeymoon wrote: "Thank you so much for everything! My wedding was absolutely perfect. Love you both!" Literally, brought tears to my eyes. And that my friends, is why we do what we do. That makes all the hard work and high stress level totally worth it.
We have a breather of sorts the next couple of months as far as actual events; however, the planning continues for December weddings and several already in the works for next year. Thank you, Lord for work that we adore!
So . . . all of that to say that this morning I am overwhelmed with thankfulness. Thankful to God who continues to show His love for me; thankful for my husband and the spiritual leader he continues to be for me and our family; for my family who are the most incredible group of people I know that bring joy unending to this girl; for a job that I absolutely love; and for fall weather!! Okay and on the totally superficial side ... for college football (i.e. Dawgs 4-0) and Starbucks' Pumpkin Spice Latte. I truly believe we need to thank God for all of his good gifts! :)
So, friends, "this is the day the Lord has made; let us rejoice and be glad in it!" Every minute, every hour and every day is a gift. Open it and make the most of it!
And boy howdy, did I need it! Let me just tell you the past few months and weeks have been a whirlwind, especially the past three weeks. E and I have been blessed to be a part of three wonderful weddings this month. All three have been outdoor weddings and God has certainly smiled upon us with weather that has been nothing short of incredible. Can I just tell you that there is a certain stress level that accompanies an outdoor wedding? Oh yes there is. But these three have gone off without a hitch! Weather - amazing! Sweet families - definitely! So, what more can you ask for? We have just had the best time. My heart soared this morning when E and I received a text from our last Saturday's bride who from her honeymoon wrote: "Thank you so much for everything! My wedding was absolutely perfect. Love you both!" Literally, brought tears to my eyes. And that my friends, is why we do what we do. That makes all the hard work and high stress level totally worth it.
We have a breather of sorts the next couple of months as far as actual events; however, the planning continues for December weddings and several already in the works for next year. Thank you, Lord for work that we adore!
So . . . all of that to say that this morning I am overwhelmed with thankfulness. Thankful to God who continues to show His love for me; thankful for my husband and the spiritual leader he continues to be for me and our family; for my family who are the most incredible group of people I know that bring joy unending to this girl; for a job that I absolutely love; and for fall weather!! Okay and on the totally superficial side ... for college football (i.e. Dawgs 4-0) and Starbucks' Pumpkin Spice Latte. I truly believe we need to thank God for all of his good gifts! :)
So, friends, "this is the day the Lord has made; let us rejoice and be glad in it!" Every minute, every hour and every day is a gift. Open it and make the most of it!
Tuesday, June 19, 2012
A Day in the Life
Where to begin . . .
Let's just jump right back into the bloggin' game with a little Day in the Life. How 'bout it?
1. Outside my window . . . it is gorgeous! Access North GA is telling me it's 83 degrees and I can see out my window that it's sunny. So, basically, perfect.
2. I am watching . . . oh dear, you are not going to believe this, but I am watching this season's "Bachelorette." This is the first time that I've watched an entire season without becoming disgusted, disgruntled or disoriented (meaning my head starts to spin when they all start fussing and fighting) and then jumped ship before the Love Boat sailed. But I love, love Emily who is after all, from south of the Mason Dixon line. She seems to be on the up and up and keeping it classy. Let's hope that continues because when it becomes trashing instead of classy, I'm a goner. And . . . did anyone watch the return of "Dallas" last week? I don't know how I missed it but I did. I'll have to go back and HuLu it because I have to see the first episode. Believe me, I now have my DVR set and even a reminder on my phone. I can't wait to see Larry Hagman ( and his eyebrows), Patrick Duffy and Linda Gray at South Fork again. Oh, how I loved "Dallas" back in the day. I really hope this return doesn't disappoint.
3. I'm listening to . . . the new Kenny Chesney album. It just downloaded it today so I'm ill-prepared to give you a review. By the way, does anyone else think it's weird that they still call it an album on itunes? You know, D and I are off to see Mr. Chesney and his buddy, Tim McGraw this weekend in Charlotte for the Brothers of the Sun concert. I can hardly wait. This is going to be so much fun. D and I are just so weird . . . we are actually going to two concerts this weekend. Saturday night we'll be in Hiawassee to see the man himself, Mr. Vince Gill. Some of you are probably remembering that I saw Vince at Christmas at the Fox. Well, that was fabulous; however, it was all Christmas music and it was with his wife, Amy Grant. That was all well and good but I just wanted to see Vince in his element. Thank you very much. So, D and I will travel up to the mountains this Saturday; then head to Charlotte on Sunday. WooHoo!
4. I am reading . . . as always, lots of different things. For Bible study, I'm reading the books of Ezra and Nehemiah. The study is actually specifically about Nehemiah but nothing in the Bible is stand alone. You have to know the context so do to that you need to read what has happened up to that point. I love the Old Testament. It is so rich and wonderful. Loving these books! I'm also reading the "Happiness Project" which is an interesting concept. Not really sure how I feel about it yet. Two of my favorite authors just released new books: "Spring Fever" by Mary Kay Andrews and "Porch Lights" by Dorothea Benton Frank. I actually pre-ordered them and have finished both. They are great reads for your beach bag if you're needing such.
5. What I'm wearing . . . white linen pants, a white tank, a taupe crocheted (maybe?) long top. This may be the most comfortable outfit I own. The pants are wide and flowy which I love. The wider and flowier, the better I like it.
6. What I'm thinking . . . wow, that's a loaded one. I'm thinking I need to write this blog on a regular basis again because my sweet girl really misses it. And if she misses it, I need to do it. I'm thinking I need to carve out some time to organize my pictures. I'm thinking I need to clean my house. I'm thinking I need to do something nice for a friend who is struggling. I'm thinking I need to look at my calendar and do some planning for the fall. I'm thinking I should make a list of all of this before I forget it.
7. What I'm doing after this . . . going to work-out. I haven't missed a day of exercising in two weeks. So far, so good. I'm going to the Family Life Center to get on the elliptical. It's not really that bad and I sure am glad I did it when I'm done.
8. What I'm cooking for supper . . . after the workout, it's steaks on the grill, bacon-wrapped asparagus and a great new dish using the fresh produce that is coming in from my mother-in-law's garden. Here's the recipe if you're interested:
Summer Vegetable Bake:
So, there you have it. A day in the life of this ordinary girl who loves her ordinary life.
Let's just jump right back into the bloggin' game with a little Day in the Life. How 'bout it?
1. Outside my window . . . it is gorgeous! Access North GA is telling me it's 83 degrees and I can see out my window that it's sunny. So, basically, perfect.
2. I am watching . . . oh dear, you are not going to believe this, but I am watching this season's "Bachelorette." This is the first time that I've watched an entire season without becoming disgusted, disgruntled or disoriented (meaning my head starts to spin when they all start fussing and fighting) and then jumped ship before the Love Boat sailed. But I love, love Emily who is after all, from south of the Mason Dixon line. She seems to be on the up and up and keeping it classy. Let's hope that continues because when it becomes trashing instead of classy, I'm a goner. And . . . did anyone watch the return of "Dallas" last week? I don't know how I missed it but I did. I'll have to go back and HuLu it because I have to see the first episode. Believe me, I now have my DVR set and even a reminder on my phone. I can't wait to see Larry Hagman ( and his eyebrows), Patrick Duffy and Linda Gray at South Fork again. Oh, how I loved "Dallas" back in the day. I really hope this return doesn't disappoint.
3. I'm listening to . . . the new Kenny Chesney album. It just downloaded it today so I'm ill-prepared to give you a review. By the way, does anyone else think it's weird that they still call it an album on itunes? You know, D and I are off to see Mr. Chesney and his buddy, Tim McGraw this weekend in Charlotte for the Brothers of the Sun concert. I can hardly wait. This is going to be so much fun. D and I are just so weird . . . we are actually going to two concerts this weekend. Saturday night we'll be in Hiawassee to see the man himself, Mr. Vince Gill. Some of you are probably remembering that I saw Vince at Christmas at the Fox. Well, that was fabulous; however, it was all Christmas music and it was with his wife, Amy Grant. That was all well and good but I just wanted to see Vince in his element. Thank you very much. So, D and I will travel up to the mountains this Saturday; then head to Charlotte on Sunday. WooHoo!
4. I am reading . . . as always, lots of different things. For Bible study, I'm reading the books of Ezra and Nehemiah. The study is actually specifically about Nehemiah but nothing in the Bible is stand alone. You have to know the context so do to that you need to read what has happened up to that point. I love the Old Testament. It is so rich and wonderful. Loving these books! I'm also reading the "Happiness Project" which is an interesting concept. Not really sure how I feel about it yet. Two of my favorite authors just released new books: "Spring Fever" by Mary Kay Andrews and "Porch Lights" by Dorothea Benton Frank. I actually pre-ordered them and have finished both. They are great reads for your beach bag if you're needing such.
5. What I'm wearing . . . white linen pants, a white tank, a taupe crocheted (maybe?) long top. This may be the most comfortable outfit I own. The pants are wide and flowy which I love. The wider and flowier, the better I like it.
6. What I'm thinking . . . wow, that's a loaded one. I'm thinking I need to write this blog on a regular basis again because my sweet girl really misses it. And if she misses it, I need to do it. I'm thinking I need to carve out some time to organize my pictures. I'm thinking I need to clean my house. I'm thinking I need to do something nice for a friend who is struggling. I'm thinking I need to look at my calendar and do some planning for the fall. I'm thinking I should make a list of all of this before I forget it.
7. What I'm doing after this . . . going to work-out. I haven't missed a day of exercising in two weeks. So far, so good. I'm going to the Family Life Center to get on the elliptical. It's not really that bad and I sure am glad I did it when I'm done.
8. What I'm cooking for supper . . . after the workout, it's steaks on the grill, bacon-wrapped asparagus and a great new dish using the fresh produce that is coming in from my mother-in-law's garden. Here's the recipe if you're interested:
Summer Vegetable Bake:
Ingredients:
1 medium onion, chopped
1 teaspoon minced garlic
1 tablespoon olive oil
1 medium zucchini, thinly sliced
1 medium yellow squash, thinly sliced
1 potato, thinly sliced
1 tomato, thinly sliced
1 teaspoon dried thyme
Salt and pepper to taste
1 cup shredded Italian cheese
Directions:
1.
Preheat
the oven to 400 degrees.
2.
Sauté
onion and garlic in a skillet with olive oil until softened (about five
minutes).
3.
Spray
the inside of an 8x8 square or round baking dish with non-stick spray. Spread
the softened onion and garlic in the bottom of the dish.
4.
Place
the thinly sliced vegetables in the baking dish vertically, in an alternating
pattern. Sprinkle generously with salt, pepper, and thyme.
5.
Cover the dish with foil and bake for 30
minutes. Remove the foil, top with cheese and bake for another 15-20 minutes or
until the cheese is golden brown.
So, there you have it. A day in the life of this ordinary girl who loves her ordinary life.
Sunday, May 13, 2012
Happy Mother's Day 2012!
Well, look who's back. I know ya'll thought I was gone for good but apparently I felt I needed a sabbatical so I took one. I appreciate the one of you who missed me and sent me an email encouraging me to get back on the blog horse, so to speak.
So it's Mother's Day and I had a fabulous one! It really started at 4:00 this morning when my baby boy busted through our bedroom doors and said "I'm Home!" Scared the absolute fool out of me and D but we recovered quickly when we realized that he was home safe and sound for a whole 4 days! G had gotten off work about 10:30 p.m. Saturday, went home, couldn't sleep and decided to drive to Gville in the middle of night. Now, if I had known that I wouldn't have slept a wink. Oh, thank you Lord for his safety! We finally went back to sleep and woke up with the best feeling knowing that boy of ours was right upstairs. We went to church together and D's mom joined us, something she hadn't felt up to doing in the past few months. We were so thankful to have her and G there with us. Our church service this morning was amazing. Our pastor announced the totals from our new building and debt payment campaign, Sharing the Vision, and let me just say, God is so good and faithful. I won't go into details right now but God provided above and beyond our wildest dreams.
After church, we came home for a few minutes, changed clothes, picked up the Mimi and headed to E's for lunch. She and N had fixed a wonderful meal and we loved the time we spent with them and N's parents and sister. I've said several times how much I enjoy them and today was no exception. We talked and laughed for over two hours. So much fun.
I am so blessed to be a mom. I told D this morning that when you have children they become your biggest source of joy and heartache. My children are funny, smart and amazing. I truly enjoy them beyond words. I have also been blessed with a great woman in my life. My mom, who has shown me unconditional love my entire life, is still going strong at 86 years old. She is one of those people who sees life with the glass half full. She has been dealt some tough things in life and is still filled with great joy for life. What an inspiration she is. I am so thankful for her. I walked into a room the other day and she said, "there's the sunshine of my life." She greets me like that almost every time I see her. She loves all the girlie things in life which is right up this girl's alley! We are truly two peas in a pod. I'm truly blessed to have her in my life.
So, I'm sitting here now surrounded by my people. And that is my favorite way to spend this Mother's Day and every day. Love and blessings to all mothers. It's a daunting job but don't grow weary, it's totally worth it.
So it's Mother's Day and I had a fabulous one! It really started at 4:00 this morning when my baby boy busted through our bedroom doors and said "I'm Home!" Scared the absolute fool out of me and D but we recovered quickly when we realized that he was home safe and sound for a whole 4 days! G had gotten off work about 10:30 p.m. Saturday, went home, couldn't sleep and decided to drive to Gville in the middle of night. Now, if I had known that I wouldn't have slept a wink. Oh, thank you Lord for his safety! We finally went back to sleep and woke up with the best feeling knowing that boy of ours was right upstairs. We went to church together and D's mom joined us, something she hadn't felt up to doing in the past few months. We were so thankful to have her and G there with us. Our church service this morning was amazing. Our pastor announced the totals from our new building and debt payment campaign, Sharing the Vision, and let me just say, God is so good and faithful. I won't go into details right now but God provided above and beyond our wildest dreams.
After church, we came home for a few minutes, changed clothes, picked up the Mimi and headed to E's for lunch. She and N had fixed a wonderful meal and we loved the time we spent with them and N's parents and sister. I've said several times how much I enjoy them and today was no exception. We talked and laughed for over two hours. So much fun.
I am so blessed to be a mom. I told D this morning that when you have children they become your biggest source of joy and heartache. My children are funny, smart and amazing. I truly enjoy them beyond words. I have also been blessed with a great woman in my life. My mom, who has shown me unconditional love my entire life, is still going strong at 86 years old. She is one of those people who sees life with the glass half full. She has been dealt some tough things in life and is still filled with great joy for life. What an inspiration she is. I am so thankful for her. I walked into a room the other day and she said, "there's the sunshine of my life." She greets me like that almost every time I see her. She loves all the girlie things in life which is right up this girl's alley! We are truly two peas in a pod. I'm truly blessed to have her in my life.
So, I'm sitting here now surrounded by my people. And that is my favorite way to spend this Mother's Day and every day. Love and blessings to all mothers. It's a daunting job but don't grow weary, it's totally worth it.
Tuesday, February 21, 2012
It Could Not be more Random
I just want to jump on here to talk about a few random things of no importance whatsoever and in no particular order.
Actually this first one is of importance. It is the only one of the list that is.
1. God was so good to me today. He totally answered my prayer and the prayers of those who were praying for me as I spoke to the Challenged Child Women's Advocacy Group this morning. I remembered what I wanted to say. Even though I had notes, I hardly ever used them. I got my display set up in time. Everybody was so supportive and encouraging. Bottom line, it could not have gone better. I am so very thankful for those who prayed and so thankful that God honored those prayers.
2. I just ate an entire Dove Chocolate bar. If you remember, it was in my Valentine's bouquet. Please do not judge me.
3. I am probably the last human on earth to download on my iphone/ipad/ihome/iwhatever Adele's album titled "21." Oh my word it is amazing. I liked having new music on my i-device that I downloaded Vince Gill's new CD, "Guitar Slinger." As I think I might have mentioned once or a hundred times, I am a huge Vince Gill fan. His new music is somewhat different than the honky-tonky stuff of his past but that voice is amazing and the music is just as good or better. Love it.
4. I have the new InStyle and new Southern Lady magazines sitting over there in the chair waiting for me to open them and I could not be happier about it.
5. Speaking of magazines and i-devices, I noticed in my new issue of Southern Living that if you are a subscriber you could download the magazine onto your iPad. Well, okay. I followed the directions just like they said and lo and behold, the new issue of SL came up on my iPad. However, I'm just not sure how I feel about reading it on there. You know how I struggle with the whole Kindle concept and even though I try to be a friend to technology, there is just something about having a book and/or magazine right in front of me. I want to touch and smell those pages. I'll let you know how this electronic magazine thing turns out.
6. I am loving the new season of "The Voice." I sorta liked it last year but I am all about those four judges and the whole concept this season. The judges actually are nice, respectful, encouraging and constructive with their advice. And I love that more than one judge can "turn their chair" for the artist. Then that artist gets to chose which judge he or she wants to work with. You see the judges trying to sell themselves to these talented individuals. Sort of a role reversal of sorts and definitely a fresh approach. Hands down better than American Idol and certainly Simon Cowell's new show, The X Factor.
7. I have two new electronic personal care items. (that may be the most ridiculous thing I've ever written). It's true. D got me a Sonicare toothbrush for Christmas. And y'all thought he was such a romantic after those roses and chocolate. Yes, the man bought me an electric toothbrush for Christmas. Thankfully, he padded that gift with some other items that totally made me forget that he got me a toothbrush with a cord. I really don't tell him how much I love this toothbrush for fear he'll buy me a new vacuum cleaner next year. So that got me to thinking how much I really would love to have the Sonicare toothbrush's sister,The Clarisonic Mia. Have you seen her? I had been going back and forth on investing in one of these little beauties because I wasn't sure if it would really work like they say, or would it make my face break out, or could I send it back if I had already used it on my face or most importantly, can I really justify the cost both initially and the cost with the replacement brushes. And do I want one more thing laying on my bathroom counter. Clearly, I am an overthinker. But one night, after wearing myself out with all of this overthinking, I gave up and ordered it. I could not be happier with her. I'm not sure my face looks any different but it feels amazing. Smooth as a baby's behind. I am not kidding.
Check it out. I ordered mine in Turqoise.
http://www.amazon.com/Clarisonic-Mia-Skin-Cleansing-System/dp/B002XURD32/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1329865472&sr=8-1
8. I met a friend for breakfast yesterday morning at Panera and thought I might try something new there. The thing that's funny about this is that I have one of two things every single time I go to Panera and I go to Panera a lot. But since it was breakfast and I was feeling, well, like walking on the wild side, I tried their new Mediterranean Egg White Breakfast Sandwich. And let me just say, slamdunk, Panera, it was great. And I don't really even like egg whites.
Well, that's all the worthless information that I know for today. Stay tuned. It's got to get better than this.
Actually this first one is of importance. It is the only one of the list that is.
1. God was so good to me today. He totally answered my prayer and the prayers of those who were praying for me as I spoke to the Challenged Child Women's Advocacy Group this morning. I remembered what I wanted to say. Even though I had notes, I hardly ever used them. I got my display set up in time. Everybody was so supportive and encouraging. Bottom line, it could not have gone better. I am so very thankful for those who prayed and so thankful that God honored those prayers.
2. I just ate an entire Dove Chocolate bar. If you remember, it was in my Valentine's bouquet. Please do not judge me.
3. I am probably the last human on earth to download on my iphone/ipad/ihome/iwhatever Adele's album titled "21." Oh my word it is amazing. I liked having new music on my i-device that I downloaded Vince Gill's new CD, "Guitar Slinger." As I think I might have mentioned once or a hundred times, I am a huge Vince Gill fan. His new music is somewhat different than the honky-tonky stuff of his past but that voice is amazing and the music is just as good or better. Love it.
4. I have the new InStyle and new Southern Lady magazines sitting over there in the chair waiting for me to open them and I could not be happier about it.
5. Speaking of magazines and i-devices, I noticed in my new issue of Southern Living that if you are a subscriber you could download the magazine onto your iPad. Well, okay. I followed the directions just like they said and lo and behold, the new issue of SL came up on my iPad. However, I'm just not sure how I feel about reading it on there. You know how I struggle with the whole Kindle concept and even though I try to be a friend to technology, there is just something about having a book and/or magazine right in front of me. I want to touch and smell those pages. I'll let you know how this electronic magazine thing turns out.
6. I am loving the new season of "The Voice." I sorta liked it last year but I am all about those four judges and the whole concept this season. The judges actually are nice, respectful, encouraging and constructive with their advice. And I love that more than one judge can "turn their chair" for the artist. Then that artist gets to chose which judge he or she wants to work with. You see the judges trying to sell themselves to these talented individuals. Sort of a role reversal of sorts and definitely a fresh approach. Hands down better than American Idol and certainly Simon Cowell's new show, The X Factor.
7. I have two new electronic personal care items. (that may be the most ridiculous thing I've ever written). It's true. D got me a Sonicare toothbrush for Christmas. And y'all thought he was such a romantic after those roses and chocolate. Yes, the man bought me an electric toothbrush for Christmas. Thankfully, he padded that gift with some other items that totally made me forget that he got me a toothbrush with a cord. I really don't tell him how much I love this toothbrush for fear he'll buy me a new vacuum cleaner next year. So that got me to thinking how much I really would love to have the Sonicare toothbrush's sister,The Clarisonic Mia. Have you seen her? I had been going back and forth on investing in one of these little beauties because I wasn't sure if it would really work like they say, or would it make my face break out, or could I send it back if I had already used it on my face or most importantly, can I really justify the cost both initially and the cost with the replacement brushes. And do I want one more thing laying on my bathroom counter. Clearly, I am an overthinker. But one night, after wearing myself out with all of this overthinking, I gave up and ordered it. I could not be happier with her. I'm not sure my face looks any different but it feels amazing. Smooth as a baby's behind. I am not kidding.
Check it out. I ordered mine in Turqoise.
http://www.amazon.com/Clarisonic-Mia-Skin-Cleansing-System/dp/B002XURD32/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1329865472&sr=8-1
8. I met a friend for breakfast yesterday morning at Panera and thought I might try something new there. The thing that's funny about this is that I have one of two things every single time I go to Panera and I go to Panera a lot. But since it was breakfast and I was feeling, well, like walking on the wild side, I tried their new Mediterranean Egg White Breakfast Sandwich. And let me just say, slamdunk, Panera, it was great. And I don't really even like egg whites.
Well, that's all the worthless information that I know for today. Stay tuned. It's got to get better than this.
Friday, February 17, 2012
Food Friday Reappears
Last week on the What's for Supper? segment we built a great meal for a special occasion, specifically Valentines Day. This week on the segment we have talked about slow-cooker meals. We are even giving away a 6-quart Crock Pot during the segment today! Super fun, right? I just love to give stuff away! With two weeks of great recipes to choose from I can hardly decide which ones to share here but I'll try.
This Beef Tenderloin recipe is amazing. You can easily adjust the basting ingredients based on your taste and diet restrictions but any way you go, it's delicious and oh so easy. And don't forget the key to making any meat great is to let it rest after cooking and before slicing. It really makes all the difference in world, in the world of meat anyway.
The Sweetheart Salad was devoured by my family. I'm not a fan of cherries so next time I'm making it with strawberry pie filling. It would work just as well.
Roasted Asparagus and Mushrooms - what can I say. This is a staple at our house and pretty much the easiest and most delicious side dish you can do. Love this recipe.
Man, I thought I would just do a couple recipes but I can't stop. I've got to include a slow cooker recipe because my slow cooker is probably my favorite kitchen appliance. Well, it and my Kitchen Aid stand mixer. I just couldn't function in the kitchen without them. Anyway, I'll just have to say, with no pride I promise, that the slow cooker recipes this week were great. If you're interested in the recipes, you can go on the store website, www.jandjfoods.com and look them up. Here was the line-up: Tex-Mex Sloppy Joes (de-lish); Parmesan Honey Pork Roast (have mercy); Chicken Parmesan (another staple at our house); Triple Berry Cobbler (love a dessert in the slow cooker) and a new one that my family loved - Creamy Mushroom Chicken.
Hope you enjoy!
1 (3 pound) beef tenderloin roast
3/4 cup soy sauce
1/2 cup melted butter
Garlic Pepper, to taste
Granulated garlic, to taste
Directions:
Roasted Asparagus and Mushrooms
Creamy Mushroom Chicken
This Beef Tenderloin recipe is amazing. You can easily adjust the basting ingredients based on your taste and diet restrictions but any way you go, it's delicious and oh so easy. And don't forget the key to making any meat great is to let it rest after cooking and before slicing. It really makes all the difference in world, in the world of meat anyway.
The Sweetheart Salad was devoured by my family. I'm not a fan of cherries so next time I'm making it with strawberry pie filling. It would work just as well.
Roasted Asparagus and Mushrooms - what can I say. This is a staple at our house and pretty much the easiest and most delicious side dish you can do. Love this recipe.
Man, I thought I would just do a couple recipes but I can't stop. I've got to include a slow cooker recipe because my slow cooker is probably my favorite kitchen appliance. Well, it and my Kitchen Aid stand mixer. I just couldn't function in the kitchen without them. Anyway, I'll just have to say, with no pride I promise, that the slow cooker recipes this week were great. If you're interested in the recipes, you can go on the store website, www.jandjfoods.com and look them up. Here was the line-up: Tex-Mex Sloppy Joes (de-lish); Parmesan Honey Pork Roast (have mercy); Chicken Parmesan (another staple at our house); Triple Berry Cobbler (love a dessert in the slow cooker) and a new one that my family loved - Creamy Mushroom Chicken.
Hope you enjoy!
1 (3 pound) beef tenderloin roast
3/4 cup soy sauce
1/2 cup melted butter
Garlic Pepper, to taste
Granulated garlic, to taste
Directions:
- Preheat oven to 350 degrees.
- Place roast into a shallow, glass baking dish. Pour soy sauce and melted butter over the tenderloin.
- Bake in preheated oven for 10 minutes, then turn the roast over, and continue cooking 35 to 40 minutes, basting occasionally until the internal temperature of the roast is at 140 degrees F for medium. Or, cook to your desired degree of doneness. Let meat rest for 10 to 15 minutes before slicing.
Ingredients:
1 8-ounce package cream cheese, softened
2 cups powdered sugar
1 15 ¼ - ounce crushed pineapple, drained
1 21-ounce cherry pie filling
1 cup chopped pecans
1 8-ounce whipped topping, thawed
Directions:
1. Beat cream cheese until smooth, add powdered sugar.
2. Fold in pineapple, cherry pie filling, pecans and whipped topping.
3. Chill and serve.
Roasted Asparagus and Mushrooms
Ingredients:
1 bunch fresh asparagus, trimmed
1/2 pound fresh mushrooms, quartered
2 teaspoons olive oil
Sea salt to taste
Freshly ground black pepper to taste
Directions:
1. Preheat oven to 400 degrees. Lightly spray a cookie sheet with vegetable cooking spray.
2. Place the asparagus and mushrooms in a bowl. Drizzle with the olive oil, then season with salt and pepper; toss well.
3. Lay the asparagus and mushrooms out on the prepared pan in an even layer.
4. Roast in the preheated oven until the asparagus is tender, about 15 minutes.
Creamy Mushroom Chicken
Ingredients:
¼ cup butter
1 .7-ounce package Italian dry salad dressing mix
1 can condensed mushroom soup
½ cup chicken broth
1 8-ounce cream cheese (can use reduced fat/calorie)
2 8-ounce package fresh mushrooms, quartered
4 skinless, boneless chicken breast halves
Hot cooked rice or angel hair pasta
Directions:
1. Melt butter in a saucepan and add Italian dressing packet. Stir in soup, broth and cream cheese until it combines and cream cheese melts.
2. Spray slow cooker with cooking spray or use a liner. Place mushrooms in the bottom of the slow cooker.
3. Place chicken on top of mushrooms and pour sauce on top of the chicken.
4. Cook on low for 5 hours.
5. Serve hot with rice or pasta.
Thursday, February 16, 2012
He Knows Me So Well
It's just been one of those weeks. One when you write a great blog post about Valentine's Day but somehow it doesn't get saved and you lose it. One when you're just too tired to write the same post again. One when you do something stupid like fall out of bed (don't ask) and then can't move your back for about two days. One when you are feeling so overwhelmed with all you have to do that you just want to stay in bed all day and do nothing. One when you feel like all of the sadness in the world has surrounded your family and you can't take too much more.
But God. Because He is full of grace and mercy, He sends you bright spots all week to overshadow the pain. Praise Him!
Bright spot: My son sent me a text message on Valentine's Day that said, "I'm so blessed that you're my mom. I love you." Have mercy.
Bright spot: My daughter sat and listened for well over an hour yesterday to me throw out ideas about my upcoming speaking engagement; and then vent, rant and rave about a whole myriad of subjects. After listening patiently, she gave her valuable and creative input. Bless her.
Bright spot: I sat with a group of godly women last night with whom I share a common passion. What an amazing blessing to hear their hearts and thoughts about this ministry.
Bright spot: Friends who constantly surround me and my family with encouragement and support through texts, emails and phone calls. Yesterday I sent an email to a dear friend full of scattered ideas about a particular subject that I just can't seem to wrap my head around and within minutes she responded with thoughts as to how to make this whole thing work. (J- if you're reading, thank you!).
And then on Valentine's Day evening, as I'm still sitting in the bed, in my pajamas, nursing my aching back, in comes the love of my life with a beautiful bouquet. But this isn't just any bouquet because this one has been custom made just for me with roses and Dove chocolate. He knows me so well. Nothing like chocolate to help you forget your troubles. It also served as just another reminder that when life is going, well, like life does, there is always beauty, love, goodness and sweetness to be found.
"Taste and see that the Lord is good; blessed is the man who takes refuge in Him." Psalm 34:8
But God. Because He is full of grace and mercy, He sends you bright spots all week to overshadow the pain. Praise Him!
Bright spot: My son sent me a text message on Valentine's Day that said, "I'm so blessed that you're my mom. I love you." Have mercy.
Bright spot: My daughter sat and listened for well over an hour yesterday to me throw out ideas about my upcoming speaking engagement; and then vent, rant and rave about a whole myriad of subjects. After listening patiently, she gave her valuable and creative input. Bless her.
Bright spot: I sat with a group of godly women last night with whom I share a common passion. What an amazing blessing to hear their hearts and thoughts about this ministry.
Bright spot: Friends who constantly surround me and my family with encouragement and support through texts, emails and phone calls. Yesterday I sent an email to a dear friend full of scattered ideas about a particular subject that I just can't seem to wrap my head around and within minutes she responded with thoughts as to how to make this whole thing work. (J- if you're reading, thank you!).
And then on Valentine's Day evening, as I'm still sitting in the bed, in my pajamas, nursing my aching back, in comes the love of my life with a beautiful bouquet. But this isn't just any bouquet because this one has been custom made just for me with roses and Dove chocolate. He knows me so well. Nothing like chocolate to help you forget your troubles. It also served as just another reminder that when life is going, well, like life does, there is always beauty, love, goodness and sweetness to be found.
"Taste and see that the Lord is good; blessed is the man who takes refuge in Him." Psalm 34:8
Wednesday, February 8, 2012
Praying for our Husbands
I saw this yesterday and I must say, I was convicted. Yes, I pray for my husband but do I pray the right things? Not always. This is a great reminder to all of us married girls.
10 Ways to Pray for Your Husband
I Pray . . . for my husband's relationship with God.
I Pray . . . that God would bless my husband.
I Pray . . . for my husband to be the spiritual leader of our family.
I Pray . . . for my husband to love me deeply.
I Pray . . . for my husband to have a heart for his children.
I Pray . . . for my husband to make wise choices.
I Pray . . . for my husband's emotional, mental and physical health.
I Pray . . . for my husband to prosper at work.
I Pray . . . for my husband's power to resist sexual temptation.
I Pray . . . that I will show my husband respect, grace and kindness.
10 Ways to Pray for Your Husband
I Pray . . . for my husband's relationship with God.
I Pray . . . that God would bless my husband.
I Pray . . . for my husband to be the spiritual leader of our family.
I Pray . . . for my husband to love me deeply.
I Pray . . . for my husband to have a heart for his children.
I Pray . . . for my husband to make wise choices.
I Pray . . . for my husband's emotional, mental and physical health.
I Pray . . . for my husband to prosper at work.
I Pray . . . for my husband's power to resist sexual temptation.
I Pray . . . that I will show my husband respect, grace and kindness.
Tuesday, February 7, 2012
What I Love about February 2012
With the full realization that we are seven days into February, I thought a monthly post might still be appropriate. So let's see what's happening around here this month.
1. On the 1st, we were honored to be invited to see the son of some long-time friends participate in the National Signing Day Celebration here in Gainesville. It has been a privilege for us to watch this young man grow up and now see him make a life decision to sign with a major college to play football. Not only is he a talented athelete, he's a great student. We wish him much success in this next chapter of his life.
2. On the 3rd, I spent the day in Athens with one of our brides visiting her church, reception site, and various rehearsal dinner venue options. Love this girl and the whole feel of her wedding. She and her mother are just a joy and we could not have had more fun. Her wedding is coming up at warp speed (March 31st) and we needed to confirm lots of details. Much was accomplished and we were so pleased with our progress.
3. Well, yes, we watched the Super Bowl yesterday. I didn't give a hoot as to who won this game but I sure did enjoy the commercials and Madonna. Yes, I actually said I enjoyed Madonna.
First the commericals. My favorites in this order were:
a. The Honda CRV commerical starring Matthew Broderick. As a fan of the "Ferris Bueller" movie for years (it's one of those that we watch every time it comes on tv) I loved the whole reference to Matthew and Ferris. Thought it was genius.
b. The Doritos commerical. Dogs and babies - works every time.
c. The Acura commerical with Jerry Seinfield. Yep, I get caught up in nostalgia I guess since this one was reminiscent of the old "Seinfield" episodes. It even featured an appearance by the soup nazi. And dear goodness, what a great looking car. Sign me up for an Acura NSX.
d. VW's Bark Wars. What is not to love about a bunch of adorable dogs barking? I thought it was great.
So about Madonna. I may not hold the popular view on this one and frankly I'm a little surprised at myself for even liking the halftime show just a little bit. Madonna rocked the house in my opinion. Even if you aren't a fan, you have to give the girl credit. She's a 53-year old who can still wear thigh-high boots, a short skirt, look amazing in it and dance like a 25 year old. Personally, I thought she was impressive and they could have done a lot worse for halftime entertainment. Oh wait, they have.
1. On the 1st, we were honored to be invited to see the son of some long-time friends participate in the National Signing Day Celebration here in Gainesville. It has been a privilege for us to watch this young man grow up and now see him make a life decision to sign with a major college to play football. Not only is he a talented athelete, he's a great student. We wish him much success in this next chapter of his life.
2. On the 3rd, I spent the day in Athens with one of our brides visiting her church, reception site, and various rehearsal dinner venue options. Love this girl and the whole feel of her wedding. She and her mother are just a joy and we could not have had more fun. Her wedding is coming up at warp speed (March 31st) and we needed to confirm lots of details. Much was accomplished and we were so pleased with our progress.
3. Well, yes, we watched the Super Bowl yesterday. I didn't give a hoot as to who won this game but I sure did enjoy the commercials and Madonna. Yes, I actually said I enjoyed Madonna.
First the commericals. My favorites in this order were:
a. The Honda CRV commerical starring Matthew Broderick. As a fan of the "Ferris Bueller" movie for years (it's one of those that we watch every time it comes on tv) I loved the whole reference to Matthew and Ferris. Thought it was genius.
b. The Doritos commerical. Dogs and babies - works every time.
c. The Acura commerical with Jerry Seinfield. Yep, I get caught up in nostalgia I guess since this one was reminiscent of the old "Seinfield" episodes. It even featured an appearance by the soup nazi. And dear goodness, what a great looking car. Sign me up for an Acura NSX.
d. VW's Bark Wars. What is not to love about a bunch of adorable dogs barking? I thought it was great.
So about Madonna. I may not hold the popular view on this one and frankly I'm a little surprised at myself for even liking the halftime show just a little bit. Madonna rocked the house in my opinion. Even if you aren't a fan, you have to give the girl credit. She's a 53-year old who can still wear thigh-high boots, a short skirt, look amazing in it and dance like a 25 year old. Personally, I thought she was impressive and they could have done a lot worse for halftime entertainment. Oh wait, they have.
4. E and I are just having the most fun with our current brides. Our two March brides are both long time family friends and it is just a joy and an honor to be a part of their planning. We are blessed to be very busy with lots of clients and so thankful for the trust they put in us. So this month is full of details for these two March weddings as well as those coming up in 2012.
5. Next weekend I’ll be packing up my suitcase and heading to the mountains with some of my best girlfriends. I just cannot wait to go. The past few weeks have been very stressful for a variety of reasons so to say that I need a weekend away is a little understatement. I am looking so forward to this weekend that I can hardly stand it.
6. Valentine’s Day comes once a year this month on the 14th! I love Valentine’s Day and making my loved ones feel special. Cook a great meal; make a fun card; do something special you don’t normally do to show the ones you love how you feel about them.
7. I’ve been asked to speak to a Ladies’ group this month and while this kind of thing makes me extremely on the nervous side, I am looking forward to it. I do love to talk which is why I enjoy the radio so much I guess. But like I’ve said before, when the listeners have real faces, it becomes just a little more difficult. I’ll be speaking about a subject I love and the time frame is short, so this is definitely something I can do. However, I don’t have a clue at this point what specifics I’m going to talk about so when you don’t know that, 30 minutes is a very long time. Whew. Praying for clear direction and clarity.
8. On the 25th the Party Girls will be heading back up to New Beginnings Ministry to love on the precious ladies there. Now before you get the wrong idea, the Party Girls is the name we have given our group of ladies from Gainesville who give of their time and talents to serve these women. This is our quarterly trip to celebrate birthdays and pamper them with spa and beauty treatments. The ladies of New Beginnings have touched my heart in a way I cannot explain. Coming from a background of less-than-ideal decisions and choices, they are committed to turning their lives around by loving and serving Jesus. If you don’t believe in miracles, you haven’t seen the life transformation that has happened to these women. What a blessing just be in their midst for a day.
9. The Gainesville Care Center Gala Fundraiser will be held on Tuesday evening, February 28th. I am super excited about this year’s guest speaker, Bruce Wilkinson. Mr. Wilkinson is a powerful speaker and writer; author of the best-selling “Prayer of Jabez.” The Banquet will be begin at 6:45 p.m. at the First Baptist Church Banquet Hall. Tickets are $30. This very worthy organization is celebrating 25 years of service to our community this year.
10. You know this February 2012 has an extra day. Yes, it’s leap year. I think of this like a bonus day – one we don’t get just every year. This is pretty special if you stop and think about it. So I’ve been thinking what I might do with this extra day that God has placed on our calendar this year. I want to make it different but I’m just not sure yet what to do with this day. What are you going to do on this extra day? Will it be just like any other day? Will you do something special or different?
Sunday, February 5, 2012
A Good Man
When I looked at the date of my last posting, my heart sank. I know why January 4th was my last post because on January 5th, our world shifted, changed, skewed to a new normal. One that frankly, we wish we could change. But we can't. On January 5th, I lost one of the greatest men I have ever known, my father-in-law, Johnnie Wiley.
I've put this blog post off not knowing what to say because I just don't know what is appropriate. The emotions are so overwhelming that here almost a month later, I can hardly order my thoughts. But because this blog exists to document my life, I'm going to try to share a few things.
Some of you know mine and D's dating story. We were on the fast track. We met in January, were engaged in March, and married in June. I know. I'm not sure I would recommend this for other folks but it felt right for us. We were living in Illinois at the time and were married there so I hadn't had the chance to spend a lot of time with D's parents up to this point. I immediately liked them but just didn't really know them very well yet. But on our wedding day, Johnnie said something to me, a girl he barely knew, that I will never, ever forget. While taking family photos, it was time for those with the parents. I said to Johnnie, "come stand by me for this one" and he looked me square in the eye and said, " I will always stand by you. No matter what happens in this world, I will always be here for you."
Those words are seared in my memory forever.
Johnnie never made me feel like I was a daughter-in-law but a daughter. I felt as equally loved as his own children. One of our pastor friends who knew Johnnie well described him as inclusive and that is so true. Johnnie was the same whether he was talking to an influential business leader or the 92-year-old lady who came down Aisle 1 of the grocery store on a Saturday morning. I observed him on many occasions and while he was often a man of few words, those words were always sincere and thoughtful.
He was one of the smartest men I have ever known. One thing that impressed me most about him was that he was a lifelong learner. Never, ever did he stop reading and learning. He enjoyed researching a variety of topics but especially anything that had to do with business, farming or politics. While you might not agree with his political opinions, he always knew the facts. He understood how things worked and if there was something that he didn't know, he found out. The past few years, he had learned how to use the internet and that just opened up a whole new world of information for him. He would find something interesting and the whole family would get an email from him about it. It is a just a great reminder to all of us that no matter how old you are, you should always be willing to learn.
I am so thankful that he was my children's grandfather. My own daddy died in 1996 so E or G never really knew him. That just breaks my heart to this day because he would have adored my children. Because of that, I am so thankful they had Johnnie in their lives. He poured into them his wisdom, knowledge and love. I never will forget when E was born. She was the first grandchild on both sides so it goes without saying how much she was doted on. Johnnie would do just about whatever she wanted to do whether it was playing with dolls, fishing on the dock or riding in the golf cart. For the past year or so, E has worked right across the hall from him. He would bring flowers to all of the ladies in the office out of his garden but by his own admission, the prettiest flowers would go to E.
G and Johnnie had a pretty special bond. They were fortunate to spend a lot of time together. Johnnie basically taught G to drive because the summer before his 16th birthday, he spent every Tuesday with Johnnie. Wherever Johnnie went, that's where G went - to work, to a meeting, to the farm - and G drove Johnnie's truck. Johnnie and G had a lot of good talks about life. He taught my children well.
Both of my children clearly loved him dearly. He was a great example to them of a godly man living a godly life, leaving a godly legacy.
And I loved him dearly. I am so thankful and beyond blessed that I knew him.
I've put this blog post off not knowing what to say because I just don't know what is appropriate. The emotions are so overwhelming that here almost a month later, I can hardly order my thoughts. But because this blog exists to document my life, I'm going to try to share a few things.
Some of you know mine and D's dating story. We were on the fast track. We met in January, were engaged in March, and married in June. I know. I'm not sure I would recommend this for other folks but it felt right for us. We were living in Illinois at the time and were married there so I hadn't had the chance to spend a lot of time with D's parents up to this point. I immediately liked them but just didn't really know them very well yet. But on our wedding day, Johnnie said something to me, a girl he barely knew, that I will never, ever forget. While taking family photos, it was time for those with the parents. I said to Johnnie, "come stand by me for this one" and he looked me square in the eye and said, " I will always stand by you. No matter what happens in this world, I will always be here for you."
Those words are seared in my memory forever.
Johnnie never made me feel like I was a daughter-in-law but a daughter. I felt as equally loved as his own children. One of our pastor friends who knew Johnnie well described him as inclusive and that is so true. Johnnie was the same whether he was talking to an influential business leader or the 92-year-old lady who came down Aisle 1 of the grocery store on a Saturday morning. I observed him on many occasions and while he was often a man of few words, those words were always sincere and thoughtful.
He was one of the smartest men I have ever known. One thing that impressed me most about him was that he was a lifelong learner. Never, ever did he stop reading and learning. He enjoyed researching a variety of topics but especially anything that had to do with business, farming or politics. While you might not agree with his political opinions, he always knew the facts. He understood how things worked and if there was something that he didn't know, he found out. The past few years, he had learned how to use the internet and that just opened up a whole new world of information for him. He would find something interesting and the whole family would get an email from him about it. It is a just a great reminder to all of us that no matter how old you are, you should always be willing to learn.
I am so thankful that he was my children's grandfather. My own daddy died in 1996 so E or G never really knew him. That just breaks my heart to this day because he would have adored my children. Because of that, I am so thankful they had Johnnie in their lives. He poured into them his wisdom, knowledge and love. I never will forget when E was born. She was the first grandchild on both sides so it goes without saying how much she was doted on. Johnnie would do just about whatever she wanted to do whether it was playing with dolls, fishing on the dock or riding in the golf cart. For the past year or so, E has worked right across the hall from him. He would bring flowers to all of the ladies in the office out of his garden but by his own admission, the prettiest flowers would go to E.
G and Johnnie had a pretty special bond. They were fortunate to spend a lot of time together. Johnnie basically taught G to drive because the summer before his 16th birthday, he spent every Tuesday with Johnnie. Wherever Johnnie went, that's where G went - to work, to a meeting, to the farm - and G drove Johnnie's truck. Johnnie and G had a lot of good talks about life. He taught my children well.
Both of my children clearly loved him dearly. He was a great example to them of a godly man living a godly life, leaving a godly legacy.
And I loved him dearly. I am so thankful and beyond blessed that I knew him.
Wednesday, January 4, 2012
HUGE Wonderful Events News!!!!!
When I first saw this come across my email I had to look twice, three, four times. Did that say what I think it said? We are so excited! So excited!!! Here's the big news: It seems that the super popular wedding blog, Style Me Pretty http://www.stylemepretty.com/georgia-weddings/ has chosen one of our weddings to feature!!!! Oh.My.Goodness!! So exciting - imagine me skipping around waving arms :) Have I mentioned how thrilled I am about this? This is truly an honor. I really think that it's the amazing work of photographer, Kristen Alexander and florist, Amy Osaba that sealed the deal but that's okay, we'll go with it.
E and I adored this wedding, held last May. When we first met Whitney, her fiance Jarod was still in Iraq. That alone tore us out of the frame from the get go. The more time we spent with them and got to know them, the more we just loved them. Whitney's family lives in Ohio and she was living in Alabama, so they chose a true destination wedding for all involved at the amazing Montaluce Winery in Dahlonega. One thing about Montaluce, it.is.bee-u-ti-ful. Just naturally gorgeous. Built high on a hill, the winery overlooks the vineyards and pond. Whitney and Jarod got married down by the pond then moved to the winery for the cocktail hour and reception. The details she and her mom chose were incredible. Her mother, an interior designer, had a keen eye for the exquisite and it truly shows. So beautiful.
Please go check it out. I would love it if you would!!
E and I adored this wedding, held last May. When we first met Whitney, her fiance Jarod was still in Iraq. That alone tore us out of the frame from the get go. The more time we spent with them and got to know them, the more we just loved them. Whitney's family lives in Ohio and she was living in Alabama, so they chose a true destination wedding for all involved at the amazing Montaluce Winery in Dahlonega. One thing about Montaluce, it.is.bee-u-ti-ful. Just naturally gorgeous. Built high on a hill, the winery overlooks the vineyards and pond. Whitney and Jarod got married down by the pond then moved to the winery for the cocktail hour and reception. The details she and her mom chose were incredible. Her mother, an interior designer, had a keen eye for the exquisite and it truly shows. So beautiful.
Please go check it out. I would love it if you would!!
Monday, January 2, 2012
A Few Random Photos
Well, since the last time I posted a photo on this blog there obviously has been some sort of upgrade to ye ole blogger system. Because I have no clue what I'm doing now. Thus the photo at the right. Why it's on the side like that and how it got that way, I have no idea. I kinda like it. I might try to not do it again. This was taken at the SEC Championship Fan Fare in Atlanta. I guess you could have figured that out by the SEC made out of cases of Dr. Pepper. I always have to explain the obvious.
This was at our family Christmas at D's parents house. I decided I might do something different and make a few of my gifts this year. I knitted this scarf for D's mom.
Again, please be patient with me while I figure out this new system. Swing your head to the right and check this out.
Christmas Morning! I knitted E a scarf as well.
We sat the camera on a tripod to take this one.
The kids got bluetooths from their dad. He is always worried about their safety and them talking while driving. This just cracks me up for some reason.
Sunday, January 1, 2012
Happy 2012, Y'all!
I told D last night that I like the sound and look of 2012. I'm not sure why; maybe it's the symmetry of the 2s on each end. I do appreciate some symmetry.
So you know, every January 1st I make a list of goals for the year, some I achieve and some I don't. I stopped beating myself up a long time ago about the ones I don't accomplish. I just figure if I achieve some of them, I am way ahead of where I would have been if I hadn't set them at all. I clearly appreciate the clean slate of a new year. It reminds me of the clean slate that Jesus gives us everyday when we confess our sin to Him. He wipes it clean; white as snow. It's me that keeps writing the same ole things on that clean slate and He keeps wiping and washing. Praise Jesus.
As I looked back at 2011 goals, it's clear that some I achieved and some I didn't. So that's what I've been thinking about this morning. Why didn't I achieve them? Why did I lose focus on some things where I clearly remained focused on others? Is it how I structured my time? Is it how I structured my priorities? Yes on both of those accounts. So what do I do to change that? How do I rewire my life so that ALL of those goals are achieved? I'm still pondering that but my heart's desire is that what God has for me in 2012, I accomplish and finish well. No more and no less than what He has for me. I don't want to get distracted by my fleshly desires and lose focus of what He wants for me and my family. So easy to do and yet so vitally important.
So here we go. Some of these are similar to last year because I structure them the same each year. Whew, when I begin to type these goals, I immediately become hesitant. It's kind of hard for me to put myself out there and share something so personal. But I believe in accountability even if it is to a faceless blog community in this case. Of course, I'll share these with my husband and closest prayer partners but I so wish I knew who will read this on the blog. Maybe by putting my 2012 goals out here for all the world to see it will spur someone to make their own list. I really encourage you to do that. It will change your life.
1. Spiritual Goals: My desire is for a new year that draws me closer to Jesus. I want to know Him more. I want to love Him more. I want to see Him more in the world around me. I want to serve Him more. I want to be more like Him.
As far as Bible study, I will complete the study of Esther with the Tuesday night girls. I'm going to delve into James with a heart friend. I just want to understand more about the Scriptures. I want to see for myself what it says for me. So I'm remaining open to see where God takes me here.
2. Relationship Goals. These are too personal to share but trust me when I say, I have them.
3. Physical Goals: Oh boy, this is always a loaded one, isn't it? I just feel so blessed to feel so good. Having spent the last couple of days in a hospital waiting room surrounded by so many who are suffering with health problems, it is humbling to see how fragile our healthy really is. So my goal is to do all that I can to remain healthy. Yes, that's means weight adjustments, exercise, a check-up appointment with a new doctor and some serious discipline on my part, I know that. But if that's what it takes, I'll do it. Specifically, I want to participate in some 5Ks again this year. D is such an inspiration when it comes to this. I renewed our gym membership last week so here I come!
4. Work Goals:
a. Last year, we set a WEC goal of 12 weddings/events and we did 14! We are so thankful that God gave us these opportunities to work and serve. I'm overwhelmed with His goodness to give us this work. So, I'm going to go big or go home and say that our goal this year is to do 20 weddings and events. I can hear E gasping now as she reads this. This is an ambitious goal but I truly believe that God is preparing us for it. So girl, let's do it!
b. The What's for Supper? segment. I just cannot tell you how much fun I have with this. 2011 saw the exit of the two original co-hosts of the Afternoon Show, George, who retired and B.J., who moved to the newsroom. So, 2012 will bring a set of new hosts. Katie B. is already in place and I'm assuming there is another on the horizon to take the other chair. Whatever the case, I know that at 4:50 everyday I get to talk about food and have some fun on the air waves. It is a blast. It is a lot of prep work but I love every minute of it. I'm thinking about some fresh ideas for the segment and possibly some other events connected but we'll see where that goes. Either way, it's tons of fun!
5. Time Management Goals: I am working hard on the fine line of balance between scheduling/planning and leaving room for flexibility. I'm a planner through and through so I have to kinda work at being spontaneous, which I'm pretty sure is an oxymoron. Creating my plan for the week and what I need to accomplish all the while, building in time for divine appointments and promptings from God. Whew, I'm so not good at this. Big time goal for this year.
6. Bucket List Goals: I still have my mission trip goal on the table. God is still stirring my heart about this and I'm waiting on direction.
7. Reading Goals: This is the same as last year, 2 books a month. This goal is fairly easy for me as I love, love, love to read. I'm still using the Good Reads site to manage my book list and that has proved very helpful.
8. Home Goals: Well, this is a another loaded one for me. I've got several unfinished projects that I won't bore you with but those need to be completed. Our basement pretty much looks like a bomb went off down there, so I need to purge and organize there. I'm going to set up for myself a schedule in order to accomplish all of this. I find I work better with a deadline.
9. Volunteer Goals: I'll be rolling off the Board of the Care Center this year. My heart will still be close to this organization as I strongly believe in what they do there every day. I'm also involved in another ministry with women up in North Georgia that I want to pursue a little further. God has also laid something on my heart about children's hunger and I'm praying specifically about that. We'll see where that goes.
10. Relaxation Goals: I know that this may seem very strange to list such a thing as relaxation goals but I have a husband who that if I didn't build in some relaxation time for us, he would just work and work. So I regularly schedule time for us to get away even if it is just to go to the farm for the weekend. We do have some super fun things planned for 2012 and I'm really looking forward to it!
So there you have it! Today I'm praying for a most wonderful of 2012 for you and yours!
"You crown the year with a bountiful harvest; even the hard pathways overflow with abundance."
Psalm 65:11 NLT
So you know, every January 1st I make a list of goals for the year, some I achieve and some I don't. I stopped beating myself up a long time ago about the ones I don't accomplish. I just figure if I achieve some of them, I am way ahead of where I would have been if I hadn't set them at all. I clearly appreciate the clean slate of a new year. It reminds me of the clean slate that Jesus gives us everyday when we confess our sin to Him. He wipes it clean; white as snow. It's me that keeps writing the same ole things on that clean slate and He keeps wiping and washing. Praise Jesus.
As I looked back at 2011 goals, it's clear that some I achieved and some I didn't. So that's what I've been thinking about this morning. Why didn't I achieve them? Why did I lose focus on some things where I clearly remained focused on others? Is it how I structured my time? Is it how I structured my priorities? Yes on both of those accounts. So what do I do to change that? How do I rewire my life so that ALL of those goals are achieved? I'm still pondering that but my heart's desire is that what God has for me in 2012, I accomplish and finish well. No more and no less than what He has for me. I don't want to get distracted by my fleshly desires and lose focus of what He wants for me and my family. So easy to do and yet so vitally important.
So here we go. Some of these are similar to last year because I structure them the same each year. Whew, when I begin to type these goals, I immediately become hesitant. It's kind of hard for me to put myself out there and share something so personal. But I believe in accountability even if it is to a faceless blog community in this case. Of course, I'll share these with my husband and closest prayer partners but I so wish I knew who will read this on the blog. Maybe by putting my 2012 goals out here for all the world to see it will spur someone to make their own list. I really encourage you to do that. It will change your life.
1. Spiritual Goals: My desire is for a new year that draws me closer to Jesus. I want to know Him more. I want to love Him more. I want to see Him more in the world around me. I want to serve Him more. I want to be more like Him.
As far as Bible study, I will complete the study of Esther with the Tuesday night girls. I'm going to delve into James with a heart friend. I just want to understand more about the Scriptures. I want to see for myself what it says for me. So I'm remaining open to see where God takes me here.
2. Relationship Goals. These are too personal to share but trust me when I say, I have them.
3. Physical Goals: Oh boy, this is always a loaded one, isn't it? I just feel so blessed to feel so good. Having spent the last couple of days in a hospital waiting room surrounded by so many who are suffering with health problems, it is humbling to see how fragile our healthy really is. So my goal is to do all that I can to remain healthy. Yes, that's means weight adjustments, exercise, a check-up appointment with a new doctor and some serious discipline on my part, I know that. But if that's what it takes, I'll do it. Specifically, I want to participate in some 5Ks again this year. D is such an inspiration when it comes to this. I renewed our gym membership last week so here I come!
4. Work Goals:
a. Last year, we set a WEC goal of 12 weddings/events and we did 14! We are so thankful that God gave us these opportunities to work and serve. I'm overwhelmed with His goodness to give us this work. So, I'm going to go big or go home and say that our goal this year is to do 20 weddings and events. I can hear E gasping now as she reads this. This is an ambitious goal but I truly believe that God is preparing us for it. So girl, let's do it!
b. The What's for Supper? segment. I just cannot tell you how much fun I have with this. 2011 saw the exit of the two original co-hosts of the Afternoon Show, George, who retired and B.J., who moved to the newsroom. So, 2012 will bring a set of new hosts. Katie B. is already in place and I'm assuming there is another on the horizon to take the other chair. Whatever the case, I know that at 4:50 everyday I get to talk about food and have some fun on the air waves. It is a blast. It is a lot of prep work but I love every minute of it. I'm thinking about some fresh ideas for the segment and possibly some other events connected but we'll see where that goes. Either way, it's tons of fun!
5. Time Management Goals: I am working hard on the fine line of balance between scheduling/planning and leaving room for flexibility. I'm a planner through and through so I have to kinda work at being spontaneous, which I'm pretty sure is an oxymoron. Creating my plan for the week and what I need to accomplish all the while, building in time for divine appointments and promptings from God. Whew, I'm so not good at this. Big time goal for this year.
6. Bucket List Goals: I still have my mission trip goal on the table. God is still stirring my heart about this and I'm waiting on direction.
7. Reading Goals: This is the same as last year, 2 books a month. This goal is fairly easy for me as I love, love, love to read. I'm still using the Good Reads site to manage my book list and that has proved very helpful.
8. Home Goals: Well, this is a another loaded one for me. I've got several unfinished projects that I won't bore you with but those need to be completed. Our basement pretty much looks like a bomb went off down there, so I need to purge and organize there. I'm going to set up for myself a schedule in order to accomplish all of this. I find I work better with a deadline.
9. Volunteer Goals: I'll be rolling off the Board of the Care Center this year. My heart will still be close to this organization as I strongly believe in what they do there every day. I'm also involved in another ministry with women up in North Georgia that I want to pursue a little further. God has also laid something on my heart about children's hunger and I'm praying specifically about that. We'll see where that goes.
10. Relaxation Goals: I know that this may seem very strange to list such a thing as relaxation goals but I have a husband who that if I didn't build in some relaxation time for us, he would just work and work. So I regularly schedule time for us to get away even if it is just to go to the farm for the weekend. We do have some super fun things planned for 2012 and I'm really looking forward to it!
So there you have it! Today I'm praying for a most wonderful of 2012 for you and yours!
"You crown the year with a bountiful harvest; even the hard pathways overflow with abundance."
Psalm 65:11 NLT
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